2) Drink some more
3) Have yet more to drink.
Just kidding ladies.
I was just downstairs in the lobby of the building listening to two 20 something women complain about their boyfriends and it occurred to me that I could throw my hat into the ring and try and help men with women.
I think that women are far more forgiving of physical flaws than men are. I think that more women operate on more of a cerebral/emotional level than men do. No profound insights there and maybe none to come, but here are a couple of thoughts to share.
1) You can be the “man” and still listen. More important than listening is letting her know that you “hear” what she says.
2) A good kiss can be all it takes to make her wonder what you look like when you are naked.
3) Make her feel safe, secure, cherished and loved and you will get more than you give. It is that simple.