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Archives for May 2009

If I Was Smarter I’d Sleeping

May 15, 2009 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

If I was a smarter man I’d be fast asleep in bed, but I am not that smart. I don’t know about you, but I have often wondered why they say “fast asleep” as I have never really thought of being “slow asleep” as an alternative.

In fact “slow asleep” sounds absolutely ridiculous, not that it matters because no one is asking me for my opinion anyhow.

Went to a focus group earlier today and realized that in my dotage I am growing more reticent to speak in a group setting. Or maybe it is just a matter of being more selective about when and where I am willing to publicly share my thoughts. I am not afraid to speak in public, I do it all the time. But something has changed.

Not saying that this is a good or a bad thing, just an observation about myself. Since turning 40 was a bit more traumatic than a normal birthday I have been far more conscious of these little things. Now that the the date has come and gone I am more relaxed about it.

But that doesn’t mean that I am any more accepting of some of the less “pleasant” side effects. The mysterious aches and pains, the nicks, scrapes and bruises that take forever to heal are not welcome. In fact I have tried to scare them away, but they do not fear and so they stick around.

I have some stories to tell, some things to share. Little fragments of fiction and bits of truth intermixed in a strange melange of this and that. It is my blogging recipe.

It is a recipe that I find works pretty well and one that I have adopted for most of the work that I do, but as expected there are those moments when it doesn’t meet the expectations. The good news is that this is just another personal blog so the hard questions are almost immaterial.

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Using Song Lyrics to Write A Story

May 15, 2009 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

Four years ago I decided to write a post using song lyrics, or should I say using song lyrics to tell a story. Somehow I dropped the ball and a chunk of time went by in which I didn’t work on it at all.

In July of last year I picked it up again and started weaving it together. I managed to squeak out a second post and then it just fizzled. My intention is to start it up again and see if I can’t get something going. Just for kicks I am going to grab the last set of lyrics I used and start it up again.

The hard part is that I am not exactly sure what this story is about or where it is going. It makes it more challenging to try and write. On the other hand it does provide endless opportunities now doesn’t it.

“She’s forty-one and her daddy still calls ‘er “baby”
All the folks ’round Brownsville say she’s crazy
‘Cause she walks downtown with her suitcase in her hand
Lookin’ for a mysterious dark-haired man”
Delta Dawn– Helen Reddy

“Dont stop, thinking about tomorrow,
Dont stop, itll soon be here,
Itll be, better than before,
Yesterdays gone, yesterdays gone.

Why not think about times to come,
And not about the things that youve done,
If your life was bad to you,
Just think what tomorrow will do.

Dont stop, thinking about tomorrow,
Dont stop, itll soon be here,
Itll be, better than before,
Yesterdays gone, yesterdays gone.

All I want is to see you smile,
If it takes just a little while,”
Don’t Stop- Fleetwood Mac

“Don’t let her slip away
Sentimental fool
Don’t let your heart get in her way
yeah, yeah, yeah,
Hold On Loosely– .38 Special

“Circus life
Under the big top world
We all need the clowns
To make us smile
Through space and time
Always another show
Wondering where I am
Lost

without you

And being apart aint easy
On this love affair
Two strangers learn to fall in love again
I get the joy
Of rediscovering you
Oh girl, you stand by me
Im forever yours…faithfully”
Faithfully– Journey

Ok, this is far too sappy. I think that I am going to put this to bed. We’ll give it another go later on.

Filed Under: Music

Down Go The Blazers

May 15, 2009 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

This was an incredible series.

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Thursday Morning Music

May 14, 2009 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

Comfortably Numb– Pink Floyd with Van Morrison
Country Comfort – Elton John
Burn Down The Mission – Elton John
Hold On I’m Comin’-Sam & Dave
Try A Little Tenderness -Otis Redding
“Life Is Beautiful” Sixx:A.M.
Bulls On Parade – Rage Against The Machine
People of The Sun – Rage Against The Machine
You Know My Name – Chris Cornell
Sweet Caroline– Neil Diamond
Let it be– The Beatles

Filed Under: Music

The 50 Greatest Movie Monologues

May 13, 2009 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

I liked this list. Here are a few of my favorites from it.

Glengarry Glen Ross

Casablanca

Filed Under: Movies

If I Started Blogging Today

May 13, 2009 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

In a couple of weeks I’ll celebrate my fifth blogiversary and is my custom I start celebrating well in advance of the day. Typically I try to use these sorts of posts as a moment during which I reminisce about the past, speak of the present and consider the future.

This has been one hell of an experience and I find it inconceivable to imagine my life without the blog. I was never one for journaling. If you search through the boxes in my garage you won’t find notebooks filled with my hopes and dreams. I didn’t like it, journaling that is and I didn’t do it. The few exceptions being those school assignments in which I was forced to keep one.

But this has been a tremendous experience that has brought me much joy and pleasure as well as some real aggravation. Inside these cyberwalls lie the hopes, dreams and aspirations of a relatively ordinary man.

If you really know me then you know that some of those posts are raw emotion. I have my moments of doubt and times in which I wonder if I am destined to be a tortured soul who is unable to rest. But there are also a lot of good moments that have been chronicled here.

Believe it or not, I am someone who easily shares my thoughts and feelings. Oh, the superficial stuff is easy. Not afraid to discuss politics or religion and tell you what I think. I can do all that easily.

It is the deeper stuff that is hard for me. Anonymity made that easy. I could say anything and not worry about it. Slowly over time that anonymity has been compromised. Some of it is/was my own doing and some was not.

But I think that if I had to start over that there are two things that I can say I would do differently. I would have come up with a better name. I am a creative guy and could easily have come up with something better than random thoughts.

The other thing that I would have done is said the hell with the anonymity. I would have used my real name and solved or avoided a number of problems. At least that is what I think I would have done.

It is not so easy to say. Who I am at 40 is a bit different than who I was at 35. The past five years has been filled with an awful lot of challenging situations. It is fair to say that in some ways it has been the most challenging period of my life.

Death came to visit. I lost two grandparents and said goodbye to the parents of some friends. My father had a major heart attack and almost died. For a while he and my mother were forced to live across the country and I became responsible for taking care of three grandparents, another household and more.

The dark haired beauty came into my life and turned things upside down. My career underwent a few changes. Friends got married. Friends got divorced. I was in a car accident in which my car was totaled. I was lucky to walk away with a few bruises.

All of that is a partial list of some of the things that happened. Compared to some it was nothing and compared to others it was the most incredible upheaval they’d ever see.

In short we call it life.

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I do my best to try and live a life without regrets, but I have a few. There is a very significant one that weighs upon me. I won’t say more than that. But I’ll admit to wondering if I made a mistake by not taking that fork in the road.

On the other hand I can’t help but wonder if there is a major benefit in having not taken that path. Did I gain some valuable life experience that I can apply to my life. Not to mention that it is very possible and quite likely that the path I didn’t take will intersect again in the not so distant future.

Since I can’t actually see the future all I can do is try to influence it so that the outcome favors me. I suspect that in five years I’ll be able to come back to the blog and take a look at this and get a sense of whether I hit the mark.

Oh, one more thing about starting over, at least as it pertains to blogging. If I started blogging today I’d probably make this a niche blog that focused on a couple of topics and I wouldn’t post more than once or twice a day.

Oh who am I kidding, it is May and I already have written more than 400 posts this year.

Filed Under: Blogging, Things About Jack

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