Tell Your Mom To Shut Up Too
Editor’s Note: Technically this ran last year but I’m feeling a bitÂ rantyÂ because I listened to some really ignorant people talk to their children about things they don’t understand.
I wish that some of you would just shut up. I am not kidding because I really do wish you would just stop blogging. No, I am not being nice and yes I know what your mother said about not speaking if you donâ€™t have anything nice to say.
You can tell mom to just shut up too. Do me a favor tell her twice and say that Jack sends his love. Tell her that I use two spaces after periods because I donâ€™t give a fuck if some typographers get upset about it.
They mean well but I have too many other things that are chafing my hide. I am too busy trying to figure out why our public school system is broken and wondering if I can afford to go see the dentist.
I have health insurance but I donâ€™t have dental insurance. I gave it up so that I could pay for private school for my kids. I couldnâ€™t afford to pay for everyone in the family anyway but I make sure that the kids see the dentist for their regular teeth cleaning.
When mom asks you why I am being rude tell her that I am not really being rude. Tell her that it is rude not to be angry about the homeless guys who are sleeping on the street because they have no other place to go. Tell her that people who are unemployed arenâ€™t all lazy and that lots of them want jobs.
Tell her to be thankful that she has a roof over her head and food on the table. Let her know that there are educated people on the street because shit happens. Let her know that some of them got hit by medical bills that overwhelmed them and that when their companies laid them off they didnâ€™t get severance and that no one wants to hire middle management because they have too much experience.
Let her know that it is time to stop blaming god for why things are good or bad. Tell her that we waste copious amounts of money fighting to stop gay marriage because we need to fight theÂ moral declineÂ here and that the decline of infrastructure isnâ€™t important.
We donâ€™t need to retrofit bridges, repair broken water mains or worry about keeping public libraries open. Tell mom that her dear friend Jack canâ€™t be pigeonholed as a Republican or a Democrat because he has learned to hate both parties.
That is because it has become more important to make the other side look bad than to fix common problems. Tell mom that I will continue to tell people to shut up because they havenâ€™t bothered to learn enough about the issues to explain why supporting or fighting them are important.
Tell mom that I canâ€™t be bothered to listen to anotherÂ taleÂ about how Bush stole the election or howÂ ObamaÂ isnâ€™t really a citizen. Tell her that I canâ€™t listen to Democrats blame every bad thing on Republicans and that I can take listening to Republicans blame the Democrats either.
Just Shut up
Tell mom that in the blogosphere I am sick and tired of blogs where the authors consistently take the easy road because their readers donâ€™t hold them accountable. Not every post is great. Not everyone is a winner. Some posts suck. Sometimes we fall down and we fail.
I say â€˜weâ€™ because I include myself in that group. And when mom asks if I have an ego and think I am better than some bloggers you can tell her that I do and I am. Tell her that I donâ€™t claim to have all the answers but that I am trying.
Let her know that the primary reason I am so damn angry is because I donâ€™t see changes. I donâ€™t hear coherent plans for improving things for all of us. Tell her that when I suggest that it is better to have an educated and healthy populace it doesnâ€™t make me a socialist and that if you are going to call me names you need to understand what you are saying and why.
And then tell mom that this isnâ€™t a rah rah speech. It is not me trying to be inspirational. It is just me venting because sometimes people really suck.