The People We Meet Online
I don’t know when Leon Noone stopped commenting on my blog but I know that I noticed it.
For a while he was a regular fixture here and someone who I looked forward to seeing.
Maybe it was because he seemed like this warm, affable fellow who was filled with all sorts of interesting quotes or because I thought he was a sharp man I could learn from.
Most of our exchanges were in the comment section here or elsewhere around the blogosphere but every now and then there would be an email and Â a promise to look each other up should I be in Australia or he in the states.
It never happened, we never did grab a pint together or get a chance to connect in person and I am sorry for that.
Every time I look at the quote in the photo above I smile and I think of where it came from.
It was part of a comment he left onÂ Mean Girls Come From Mean Moms. It was preceded by “Take care Jack. That 5 year old horror will grow up to be somebody’s teenage daughter.”
I almost led with that part, but I didn’t want people to think Leon was a mean man so I saved it.
Truth is I don’t really know if he was. A person can be anyone and anything online, but I really just don’t believe Leon was a bad guy.
And now I found out I won’t ever get to make that decision from personal experience.
Readers Come & Go
During my time as a blogger I have had a series ofÂ regularsÂ that read and comment here but there are very few that have been around since the start.
I don’t know about any other bloggers but I would guess the old timers have similar experiences to mine.
People come and go and you don’t always know why.
There have been a few times where I had it out with someone and they stopped because they didn’t like my politics or were offended.
My best guess is others may have been bored or found other places that they got more out of and moved on. That is ok, when you are busy you have to make choices about how and where to spend your time.
I noticed when Leon stopped coming around because his comments were usually well thought out and often witty but I didn’t write to ask why he wasn’t here because I figured it was his business.
The People We Meet Online
It took a long time before I met any of myÂ onlineÂ friends in person.
There wasn’t any particular reason for it other than for a long while I saw my blog as nothing but an online journal. It wasn’t until I tried to monetize it and started thinking about using it to get work that I really thought about connections with people.
I feel sort of foolish writing that because it sounds not just obvious but silly. Â What can I say, sometimes I am slow on the uptake but the good news is once I catch on I am pretty damn fast.
Anyhow that is not the point.
I would have liked to have met Leon and now I won’t. Â But I think he would appreciate the sentiment.
And since Leon and I liked to exchange Mark Twain quotes I’ll close this post with some in his honor
â€œKeep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.â€
â€œNever argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.â€
â€œGo to heaven for the climate and hell for the company.â€
â€œI have never let my schooling interfere with my education.â€
â€• Mark Twain
Here is to you Leon, may your friends and loved ones be comforted and forever retain warm memories of you.