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Archives for April 2007

I Am Alone

April 22, 2007 by Jack Steiner 7 Comments

If you ask someone to describe what a large city sounds like you generally expect them to mention the sounds of public transportation and private cars- honking, squealing tires and screeching brakes. Depending on where they live they might mention street vendors or the hum of the lights.

But rarely do they mention the silence.

It probably sounds contradictory to mention the noise of the city followed by commenting on the lack of it. But I suppose that in part that is because the silence I am referring to isn’t based upon your traditional auditory experience. It really refers to people who sit alone in their homes.

The impetus for the thought comes from personal experience. Following a short trip out of town I returned home ahead of the family. It was close to midnight when I pulled into my driveway. The neighborhood was quiet but then again it normally is. Tonight it seemed even more quiet than normal. Perhaps the broken streetlight contributed to this. The night seemed extra dark and extra quiet.

An overactive imagination made each creak inside my home seem a little ominous. The normal sounds of the house settling set me on edge. All sorts of crazy thoughts wandered through my mind. For a moment I was certain that there was someone else wandering through the house. I froze in place and listened for the tell-tale sign- did I hear breathing or footsteps?

It wasn’t clear.

But what was clear was that I was nervous. The dark can still make me nervous. Inside the man lives the boy who was afraid of the dark. Purposefully I forced myself to inspect each room. I checked all of the windows and roamed around searching for any sign of forced entry, but didn’t find anything to be amiss.

It took the edge off of my unease, but I’d be lying if I said that I was completely relieved.

Filed Under: Random Thoughts

Almost Three Year Blogiversary Housekeeping Note

April 19, 2007 by Jack Steiner 10 Comments

In a very short time we are going to celebrate our three year blogiversary. In order to provide you with the best possible experience we are going to be away from the blog for a few days taking care of some very serious bidness.

Yes, that is right I am heading out to join Jameel on a secret mission. Europe will never be the same.

In case you are curious we’ll be giving cleveland a wide berth. I haven’t gotten vaccinated in a while and I don’t want to get sick. Sorry Ezzie. 😉

See you around the blogosphere.

Filed Under: Blogging

Aerosmith, Penn & Teller & Run DMC

April 18, 2007 by Jack Steiner 2 Comments

I still enjoy these videos. This is a link to the Penn & Teller RUN DMC clip. The video below is self explanatory. I don’t even want to think about how old these videos are. But they still make me smile.

Filed Under: Videos

What Brings You Joy?

April 18, 2007 by Jack Steiner 4 Comments

Given the somber tone of some of my recent posts I wanted something light so I thought that I’d bring this back for some more time in the sun.

Ann receives credit for inspiring this post. If clicked on the link you’ll see that she has a list of roughly 25 different things that bring her joy. I appreciate posts like that because I think that in the hustle and bustle of life we forget about what makes us happy.

I don’t know if I can come up with a list of 25 things that bring me joy. I suspect that I am going to miss the mark by a little or exceed it by quite a bit. It seems a little extreme to phrase it like that. Why should it be an either/or situation. Why does it have to be so black and white.

The post about Mookie really hit me hard. It was a gut check that surprised me with how much it affected me. I can guarantee that part of this comes from being a parent. There is no greater fear than losing a child. I read the blogs of several people who have had this tragedy happen to them and I see what it has done. That is not a comment on their mental health or ability to function. Truthfully I don’t know enough to answer those questions. We only see what they show and it is not my place to even hazard a guess. What I know is that these experiences have changed them forever and that I have profoundly been impacted by their experiencess.

Anyway, I think that it is critical for our mental health to consider what it is that makes me happy so I am going to jump in and start my own list of things that bring me joy. It is going to be a stream of consciousness exercise. I may forget to include things and the order is not based upon importance but when I thought of it.

One other thing. I can almost guarantee that if I read a list composed by someone else I will kick myself and think why didn’t I say that. Why wasn’t I more profound. Why is my list lacking substance.

  1. My children.
  2. My children’s laughter.
  3. Laughing with my children.
  4. Laughing.
  5. Laughing with my friends/family/loved ones.
  6. Quiet moments.
  7. Quiet moments spent camping.
  8. Hiking.
  9. Blessing my children.
  10. Spending time with my loved ones.
  11. Knowing that I am loved deeply and truly.
  12. Playing with my parent’s dog.
  13. Travelling.
  14. Meeting new people.
  15. Eating my favorite foods.
  16. Reading a good book.
  17. Five o’clock
  18. Midnight
  19. A good movie.
  20. A great book.
  21. Listening to music.
  22. Floating on a raft.
  23. Zuma Beach.
  24. Lion’s Canyon
  25. Yosemite
  26. Jerusalem
  27. The Sierra Mountains.
  28. Memories of past joy, thoughts of the present and dreams of the future.
  29. Awareness of how far I have come and how much I have learned in this journey called life.
  30. Learning from blogging,
  31. Writing.
  32. Good Scotch shared with good friends.
  33. Driving on the 33 into Ojai.
  34. Watching the sunset over Jerusalem.
  35. Friday night at the Kotel.
  36. Catalina Island.

That is enough for now.

Filed Under: Blogging, Random Thoughts

A Few Thoughts About VA Tech

April 18, 2007 by Jack Steiner 7 Comments

During my commute I either listen to sports talk radio or play CDs. Every now and then I’ll flip over to the news or your run of the mill talk radio. I do it because sometimes I need a break from the news. I spend hours connected to the net and manage to read most of the newspaper so I don’t feel the need to drown myself any further in news.

But on special occasions I’ll give up listening to Ray Charles or Laker Talk to hear your standard radio broadcast.

It didn’t take long for pundit and person to begin trying to come up with reasons why this happened and ways to prevent it from reoccurring. That is not surprising and I am not issuing any sort of criticism or judgment.

In light of the tragedy it makes perfect sense that people would try to focus on things that they can control. But the problem here is that this goes beyond the scope of control. It is not a simple fix. There is no simple solution.

Apparently they have found that the gunman had been identified by university teachers and other students as being troubled. This information was enough to convince a few of the callers that the massacre could and should have been prevented. Their rationale was that someone should have alerted the authorities to his behavior.

If only things were that simple. People say a lot of things. People write a lot of things and quite often never follow through on any of it. Do we really want to live in a police state where your thoughts are enough to get you jailed.

Certainly it is true that free speech is not unlimited. You cannot yell fire in a theater, advocate for the violent overthrow of the government etc. Nonetheless the reality is that for the most part you can say some pretty outrageous things and have nothing happen to you. Personally that is how I want it to stay.

Filed Under: Random Thoughts, US

Mac Vs. PC

April 18, 2007 by Jack Steiner 4 Comments

After ten years my parents have given up on the great PC experiment. Their home is not populated by several Apple computers and I must say that I am impressed.

I think that when I find some spare cash I just might have to do the same.

Filed Under: Computers

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