Some bloggers have links on their blogs to their commenting policy. It essentially is a list of things that commenters can or can not do on their blogs. I don’t blame people for having them but I don’t like them. They rub me the wrong way and if you’ll stick with me for a few minutes I will explain why.
But before we do that take a look at the following numbers and tell me what you see:
Now let me tell you what I see. I see an IP address for a would-be commenter. Those particular numbers belong to a person(s) who leaves multiple comments on each post but uses a different name each time.
Their comments aren’t of the usual spam bot variety. Most of them relate to the topic of the post and show that they have read what I have written.Â Under most circumstances that is a formula that you can use to get your comments published.
However they almost always link to blogs that some people would call splogs, or spam blogs. And I almost always find these comments in my spam folder.
Why Do You Check Your Spam Folder?
I check my spam folder because sometimes legitimate comments wind up inside. I like having an active comment section and appreciate the time people take to leave comments. If you recall I see my blog as being similar to a big barbecue or cocktail party. Comments that are mistakenly identified as spam are similar to guests who get lost on the way to the party.
A good host looks after their guests and makes sure that those who are lost are taken care of.
But, I also acknowledge that there is a database that Akismet checks IP addresses against and if some numbers repeatedly show up there it might not be a mistake.
I also know that when I did some basic research I found through my stats that the person(s) who are posting these comments found me by using the following keywords (Â “CommentLuv badge”+”recently posted”).
In other words they didn’t find my blog because they were looking for dad bloggers or writers. They didn’t find me because they wanted to know my thoughts about children or because they like my views on politics, religion or parenting.
They just came looking for some link juice to promote their blogs and the products that they sell there. I like to help people. I like to help my friends. If you need something and ask me I will try to help you.
But I tend to frown upon providing free advertising. It is not why I am here and it is not fair to those who pay for advertising on this blog. So let this be fair notice that I won’t consciously give it away for free. If you aren’t here because you want to be a part of the community and or aren’t adding value in some way than I won’t approve your comments.
It has been a few years since I was a bouncer but I haven’t lost my chops.Â But I won’t establish a commenting policy either. You won’t find written guidelines because my guests don’t need one, they are better than that. This is still just a barbecue where we get a chance to grab a bite to eat and talk.
If you want to use this space to advertise/promote your products you are welcome to contact me. I am a Nintendo Brand Ambassador and have worked with multiple brands including Philips Norelco, Subway, Frigidaire and Mattel just to name a few.
That is all for now. Got toÂ get back to grilling my steaks and burgers, grab a drink and enjoy yourselves.