When Is Suicide The Better Option
I Want To Die
It was more than a little shocking to hear those words spoken aloud.
â€œI want to die.â€
The pregnant pause afterwards confirmed that they were completely flabbergasted. No one had expected to hear that and the lack of protestation confirmed that they didnâ€™t believe in the speakerâ€™s sincerity.
Because you know that if they had taken it seriously there would have been an immediate response, they would have followed up on it, tried to ascertain what the problem was and how they could help.
At least that seems to be the obvious expectation, friends donâ€™t sit there while you declare your readiness to end your corporeal existence. And if they do, well either you are a drama queen or you need to get new friends.
A cry for help is a cry for help. Silence is not the answer, but then again maybe it is. After all they say that people who are truly intent on committing suicide donâ€™t really spell it out, they do it. They act upon their desires.
And the desire to kill one self can be far more powerful than anyone cares to admit or believe. When you donâ€™t have a concrete reason to believe that there is anything after this it makes it much easier to see death as being a respite from the pain, a well-earned vacation.
â€œI want to die.â€
It is one thing to think it, but once you verbalize it, actually speak the words it takes on new meaning. It becomes more real and you find yourself considering the various methods you can use to commit the deed.
Having a morbid sense of humor it is easy to see what the police would call it:
Homicide against yourself
Câ€™mon now, you know that it is worth a chuckle. Ok, maybe not, but life is lacking, youâ€™re not exactly burning up the fun meter. Sadness, depression, frustration and anger are different, you own those feelings, and you just know that somewhere there is a dictionary with your picture in it.
For a time there are the thoughts about what your loss would do to the family and the world. Suicide may not be as painless as advertised. You think about how the wife and kids will fare and wonder if your parents will feel responsible. It is almost enough to keep you from trying to pull the trigger. It is almost enough to prevent you from making that first cut, but the blistering pain and the empty, hollow feeling push those thoughts out of your head.
Now all you really want to do is find an escape from the madness. It doesnâ€™t matter whether you are truly mentally ill or something else. The pain and misery make you spend much of the day doubled over, wishing you were comatose.
The light of the sun isnâ€™t a pleasure, it is torture. Laughter and smiles from others torture your soul further. Your anger is fueled by seeing how others are happy and knowing that you canâ€™t share in their happiness.
So the moment comes when you start to entertain the idea of letting go. You play around with ways and means, consider what your note will say, if anything. You canâ€™t really explain it, so you donâ€™t bother to do much.
A simple note that says â€œElvis has left the buildingâ€ will suffice. Or maybe it should read â€œwill the last person to leave remember to turn out the lights.â€
End of story; fade to black and utter silence.
Suicide is supposed to be painless and maybe if I believed it to be true I might consider it more seriously, but I donâ€™t.
I donâ€™t really want to die but I donâ€™t have too many options. The man on the other end of that call isnâ€™t going to let me stick around. I donâ€™t care what promises he makes or whose life he swears upon.
He is lying and I know better.
I know it because I used to be him. The guys he works for are the same men I used to report to and they wonâ€™t ever forget what happened or let anyone else think I got over on them.
This can only go one of two ways and no matter how it goes death wins. That old bag of bones is going to get his quart of blood and then some.
It is just a matter of time before they force me out in the open or before I decide to take action.
All I can do is weigh the pros and cons and try to decide what gives me the best chance of making it out.
This isnâ€™t like the movies. I wonâ€™t be able to go in guns blazing and kill all the bad guys. I canâ€™t call my old army buddy, the one who managed to stay out of trouble and just so happens to a colonel who can call in an air strike.
All I can do is make them bleed and hope it is enough to make them go away. I suggested as much on the telephone and the new guy laughed.
Canâ€™t say I was surprised because I would have laughed too. It is part posturing and part reality. One against a 100 isnâ€™t ever something that works in real life, especially when they are willing to use your family against you.
I have seen hard men go soft. Unless they are a true sociopath they always give in.
The guys I used to work for learned from the Taliban. Make a man cook his kid and eat them and they will do what you want.
Sick and gruesome doesnâ€™t describe it.
Sometimes death is preferable to facing this sort of decision, but I am too stubborn and maybe too stupid.
I called him back and told him I was coming to visit and then the doorbell rang.
They were here.
Renee March 11, 2014 at 3:12 am
Just Wow. I’m a lazy commenter lately, but this got me. Good work, Jack.
Jack March 11, 2014 at 9:52 pm
Stan Faryna March 10, 2014 at 12:24 pm
Awesome and powerful.
Jack March 10, 2014 at 11:25 pm
Thank you. I owe you a response to your email.
Katherine James March 10, 2014 at 11:11 am
This was a dark and mood filled piece. I like it…
Jack March 10, 2014 at 11:26 pm
David Kepley March 10, 2014 at 10:44 am
I miss Noir. I rarely see it done well anymore because it tries to be of a time period that it is not. This feels right and doesn’t distract me with older references. I want to read more. Nice.
Jack March 10, 2014 at 11:25 pm
Thank you sir. It is just something that is percolating between the empty spaces.