Work is the reason why I am living by myself again.
In theory it will be like this for close to a year or so but you never know for certain.
Life has a way of making your well-laid plans look a little less well laid and well thought out so it is possible this could be shorter or longer.
Don’t mistake that for having been said with a frown or tears because it wasn’t, there is a lot of joy and optimism behind it all.
I worked my ass off to put myself in this position and I am thrilled that things are going as they are and my fingers are crossed that they continue because of the benefits it provides my family.
This is the first time in years I can say I feel like I am providing for my kids the way I want to and the first time I have had such optimism in far too long.
Why wouldn’t I be happy and or excited.
You Ought To Comment
Steiner the minor has developed a bad habit of not acknowledging the texts or emails he receives from people.
I told him I don’t like this habit because it is rude and obnoxious and it is a good way to lose friends.
He told me it is common behavior so I compared notes with some friends and discovered it seems to be the truth.
I shouldn’t be surprised because parents seem to have trouble RSVP’ing for parties so why should I expect different behavior from their children.
We have been building a world in which we live in electronic bubbles where we point, click, slide and text our way into and out of conversations with others.
I won’t say I am not part of this society or don’t share any responsibility for any of this.
Nor will I say this is the first time I have noticed this because it is not, but it feels different to me now.
Maybe it is because I am walking around a new city and I realize what impact technology has had on my life.
Thanks to social media and texting I don’t talk to people with the same frequency I used to.
Why call when Facebook has shown me the latest moments in their lives and or a quick text lets me know they are thinking of me or me of them.
If I was in LA I’d think about getting together and maybe put it off because I figure it is easy for us to get together for a few.
Yeah we’re busy, but we can find time, if we chose to that is.
Now I am 1,500 miles away so the in person stuff isn’t so easy but social media and texting makes it feel like I am right there.
It is almost like nothing has changed, especially when you hit the same chain of markets and stores here as you’d find there.
Homogeneity at its finest.