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Archives for December 2007

Are Soul Mates Real or Fabricated?

December 26, 2007 by Jack Steiner 10 Comments

What is a Jew to do on Christmas? Well if you skip the movies and Chinese food you just might find yourself sitting around the house with other Jewish friends.

And as you watch 16 boys and 7 girls of assorted sizes and ages run in circles you might find yourself contemplating the great mysteries of life such as:

Will they ever get tired?
Could they scream any louder?
Boy I am glad that my son isn’t behaving like that. Don’t they teach him anything.
I wonder if they have any ice cream. I really like peppermint.

Or instead of being lost in your own world you might fall into the group conversation about whether there is such a thing as soulmates or besheret. I have tackled the topic in a few different places and from different angles.

Given the things that I have seen and experienced during the past number of years it is a topic that I wrestle with. Apparently more than one of my friends are as well. I can’t say that I am completely surprised by this. Some of it makes perfect sense to me. Most of us are somewhere in our late thirties or early forties. We’re no longer newly graduated from college or for that matter grad school. And with very few exceptions we are all parents.

So it makes sense to me that we have reached a place where we look around and take stock. Much of your younger years is involved in trying to reach various milestones. There is always something just ahead that you need to work for. And then you reach this place where you are sort of, kind of settled.

It is not that there aren’t challenges to be overcome or things to do, there are. But things are different. We have been through so many of the battles and survived so many wars that you can’t help but realize that you are not the person you once were. Unless you have no self awareness you have figured out who you are. You know yourself more intimately and better than you did when you were younger.

When my friends ask if I believe in soul mates it makes me wonder about their relationships. Are they still happy with their partner? Are they feeling unfulfilled? Are they growing together or are they growing apart?

Call me a skeptic, but I don’t believe that all of these couples are going to survive. If statistics are to be believed than some of them are going to most assuredly collapse.

But none of this delves into the question of whether soul mates are real or a fabrication of the movie industry/society/etc.

I can’t give you my answer right now. Ok, I could but then I’d risk the wrath of the soon to be seven-year-old boy who is waiting for me to help him finish building the Lego Jet.

Back a bit later.

Filed Under: Random Thoughts

Magic Johnson- All Class

December 25, 2007 by Jack Steiner 9 Comments

Bill Plaschke has a nice column about Magic Johnson. I have run across him a couple of times and every time I did my experience was very similar to the one that Plaschke describes. Here is an excerpt from the piece.

“Hovan, in town for a medical conference, was shopping on Rodeo Drive with family that included his 9-year-old daughter Emily and two nieces.

Across the street, the girls saw a giant man in a white sweatsuit whom they immediately recognized.

“It was Magic Johnson, and they started begging me to cross the street and take his picture,” Hovan said.

The first thing that struck the doctor was, how are these little girls so familiar with an athlete whom they never saw play? How did they even know Magic Johnson?

Then he realized his nieces, who live in Southern California, know him from their father being a longtime Lakers fan. And his daughter knew him from watching him on the TNT studio basketball show, seeing his Magic Johnson Theatre and visiting one of his Starbucks.

“I thought, it’s amazing how this man’s impact spans generations,” he said.

Having been ignored by his only other encounter with a pro athlete in his life — Johnny Bench once blew him off — Hovan turned down the girls’ request.

“I didn’t want them to experience the pain of being brushed off,” he said. “And I didn’t want them to change the opinion of one of their heroes.”

Johnson had stopped at a crosswalk light, and the girls kept insisting, so Hovan finally gulped and walked over to him.

“The first thing I noticed was, he was all by himself, nobody around him,” Hovan said.

The next thing he noticed was that Johnson didn’t try to run, or hide. In fact, when Hovan shakily introduced himself and the girls, Johnson actually came to them.

“He bent down and hugged them,” said Hovan. “He asked how they were doing. He put his arms around them and got ready for the picture.”

At which point, the camera’s button stuck. Of course it stuck. Isn’t that always happening to common folk looking for photos of famous folk? The camera breaking just long enough to remind everyone of their place in life, the famous folk walking away in a . . .

“But that was the thing,” said Hovan. “He didn’t walk away. He stayed there and talked to the girls while I fidgeted with the camera.”

While Hovan fidgeted, other pedestrians noticed the pausing Magic and hustled over for their own photos. Then a busload of foreign tourists abruptly pulled up and dozens disembarked to join the scrum.

“It was just awful, I felt so terrible, I held Mr. Johnson up just long enough for him to be swarmed,” said Hovan.

Johnson stayed and waited until Hovan fixed the camera and took the photo, then stuck around to take care of everyone else, at which point the doctor noticed something else.

The entire time, Johnson never stopped smiling. He never stopped chatting. He embraced and engaged and touched everyone.

“He went far beyond any measure of responsibility that a public figure should feel,” said Hovan. “He stayed far longer than was reasonable.”

Surely there was a reality show camera around there somewhere?

“That was the interesting thing,” said Hovan. “Nobody was with him. Nobody was watching. There was no reason he needed to stay there other than, he was just being himself.”

Filed Under: Sports

Will Smith angry over Hitler comment

December 25, 2007 by Jack Steiner 9 Comments

Here is an update to the Will Smith post. I hope that this is accurate.

“It is an awful and disgusting lie,” Smith said in a statement Monday provided by his publicist. “It speaks to the dangerous power of an ignorant person with a pen. I am incensed and infuriated to have to respond to such ludicrous misinterpretation.”

“Adolf Hitler was a vile, heinous vicious killer responsible for one of the greatest acts of evil committed on this planet,” read the statement.

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I Still Hate The Holiday Season

December 25, 2007 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

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The Plastic Surgeon

December 25, 2007 by Jack Steiner 3 Comments

Here is one more item I really don’t need.

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Kermit With an Attitude

December 25, 2007 by Jack Steiner 2 Comments

Hat Tip To: Worse Than Yours

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