"When you're in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, 'Damn, that was fun'." Groucho Marx
Went looking for one of the posts regarding sundresses but didn’t find it and have many places to update.
So I share link and a video and an extended hand cuz it is time. Might not make sense to some, but those who need to know understand and even if they don’t, they’ll find me.
Been on an extended walkabout thinking about many things such as posts like this one and one from a different blog.
One of those was applauded by a former sub commander, never know who you’ll run into within the wild and woolly blogosphere.
Been a strange time and I have had to fight my way through a few moments. Been thinking about whether those were smart moves or foolish and haven’t decided.
Might have to converse with SQ about it when she wakes up from her long slumber.
In the interim I am thinking about many things.
Sometimes that is what you have got to do to get to the other side. Courage friends, it takes courage.
Can’t decide what to do about a few things. Can’t decide what to do with this blog.
Some people treat me like this guy because they can’t figure out what to do about me either.
Thinking about doing something with the links below, but haven’t decided so this is a post of placeholders.
Spent a few minutes cleaning up this joint and wasn’t surprised to see there are some closets filled with the equivalent of cyberhoarding.
Dug into a few like the page that links to where I have guest posted and hell if I didn’t discover a half dozen or more dead links.
Yep, the fine people that asked me to share some of this mediocrity on their pages up and left the blogosphere.
Heck, I don’t know if they quit or moved online homes but the blogs are gone and so there is no point in my pointing anyone towards those spots anymore.
So I deleted broken and left some of the others which is how you got your headline because in the course of verifying what is still alive I saw comments that said they were made 561 weeks ago.
If you are curious you can click on the link above and tool on through some of the older stuff that still remains online.
Some of it points to the joint I first hung my hat on when I got into this which reminds me that I ought to go update that spot too so people know where to find me.
Have to ask SQ for her opinion on this because you know she has got one. And it will be fun to give her five details instead of the 25 she’ll want.
And now I am off to do some cleaning up there.
It has been a while since I read this post and others I wrote for The Red Dress Club.
Read this one, this one and this one too.
Didn’t go through them all, though I ought to if for no other reason than to clean up some of the coding issues that add some weird characters here and there.
Many of those posts got a ridiculous number of comments and more than a few questions about whether they were based on reality or spilled out of my head.
I don’t think I ever gave someone a straight answer for no reason other than I didn’t want to or so I seem to remember.
Truth is ten years later I can’t remember who I used to be and I can’t forget either.
There were some pretty good moments there and some very rough ones. If I drop myself into it I can pull it back into focus and I am not sure I need to.
I am sure I will get there at some point, but I don’t have it in me to revisit and relitigate what I can’t change.
And the hard truth is at this moment that is what I’ll want to do. I’ll look back and wonder why I did XYZ and not ZYX and there is no benefit in that.
It is done.
So I’ll check it out when I am not inclined to try to figure out why that younger version of me wasn’t as smart as I am now.
Our word is maecenatism and I am told it means patronage.
Told June a while back that we could talk about patronizing a number of joints together but only when it is safe.
Rumor has it that might happen later this year or perhaps the next. Rumor has it one day we’ll return to living what we call a normal life and we’ll be able to do what we once did without the concerns of the present.
So I told her to hang on and said if she did I could show her a good time out in public in places and spaces we’d enjoy spending time in.
Said sometimes you have to join hands and take a leap of faith because life is short and tomorrow is never guaranteed.
It is a hard truth and sometimes a rough thought to acknowledge. Hard to accept some choices lead to places we didn’t like and hard to shift to see if a different direction might provide something better.
Inertia pushes us to stick with what we know, but sometimes the best thing you can do is jump overboard and start swimming because you can’t know if the ship will survive the coming storm.
So you take a chance and swim for shore because you know you can get that far and if you do there will be other opportunities.
Opportunities you might be disappointed to miss.
So sometimes you listen to the voices you hear in the silence and take comfort in knowing you hear consent within.