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What Happens If We Don’t Acknowledge A Birthday?

August 28, 2024 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

I stumbled across some news the other day that has me fired up and I am working through what I want to do about it.

It was something that was hurtful which in turn has led to feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment. I read something online about someone and it answered some questions…maybe.

There is a chance what I read doesn’t mean what I think it does so I have been trying to take a moment to process because I don’t want to jump to conclusions.

I don’t want to waste energy on something that might not be true but my gut thinks my head might be fooling itself. My gut says the reason our heart aches is exactly why we think it does.

Head asks if that is true what do we want to do about it. So part of me wonders what happens if I don’t send out the typical birthday greeting to the individual I am thinking about.

Will it be noticed. Will they care or will they not be bothered at all. Am I being childish thinking about doing such a thing.

Should I Howl At The Moon?

I am bothered by how much this hurts and how disconcerting it is. Should I make like the wolf and howl at the moon.

Will raising a mournful cry make me feel better or will I just have to keep putting one foot in front of the other.

The latter is a definite but the former is questionable so I am howling here and asking myself to be kind.

Kind to me and to not beat myself up for things outside of my control or wishes that I had done something different in the past.

What is done is done and I need to orient my focus on the present and future. But I won’t lie and say this isn’t hard or that this isn’t particularly painful.

My heart hurts.

Filed Under: Fragments of Fiction, Life

Cloud Scraping

August 1, 2024 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

I used to know so much more about blogging and the world surrounding it. I used to be able to look at things like the screenshot below and know what was going on.

Now I ask myself if this is just the Google data center in Council Bluffs, Iowa rolling through my site or if someone is scraping my content for their own use.

I used to see more of that happening than I see today but I can’t say if it changed because of the world or because of what I have been doing.

There were moments when I caught people doing it and I would drop in little “poison pills” in the content to see if they were reading.

Things like “you’re reading stolen content and if you want to support the real writer do this and XYZ.”

It worked a few times, maybe more than a few, I don’t remember. Been a long while since I remember any of that going on, might be more than 10 years.

Time keeps moving and priorities change, I am obviously still writing but not like I once did so I ask myself if there is motivation to figure out what is happening here.

And if not, well should that be a sign or is the sign that I am posting about this. Does that mean the curiosity is driving me for more details.

Does that mean the flame still flickers?

Maybe.

Filed Under: Blogging

Updates, We Have Updates

July 21, 2024 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

Updates, we have updates for you though we cannot say if you will find them meaningful or important.

We’ll start with the continued question about what to do with this particular blog from a time and financial perspective.

Clearly this doesn’t get updated as often as it once did and the burning question has been is it because of lack of interest or a time perspective.

The answer there probably has more to with time as in I do not have as much as I once did. That is a good thing for on the whole but less good for building and maintaining a readership.

But let’s be honest there is so much content out there we have left the place where could just throw stuff up and expect readers to flock to you.

If you are established you might be able to keep some of the long time folks around by posting occasionally but you still need something meaningful for them to read.

That brings up the financial component because this place is self hosted and it costs more than a couple of bucks to keep running. It is not so costly that I can’t keep it going which is why you have seen it stay live, but I do wonder if I am paying more than I ought to given its current state.

So I go back and forth about whether I ought to move to something that costs less or is free. Been more than a decade since I wasn’t self hosted.


What Purpose Does It Serve?

I am not prepared to just shut it down but I am thinking about going to through the posts and culling the weaker material. How long will that take and what is involved is a reasonable question to ask.

I don’t have those answers yet.

I never tried to be an influencer or a brand ambassador but I did take paid opportunities when they presented themselves. Some of those were pretty good, but it has been years since any of that took place here and that is not the focus.

Can’t say that means I wouldn’t accept anything if it was presented but I am not sure that anyone would be real interested in that now.

So the purpose of this place seems to be somewhere I can write semi anonymously and that is worth something to me.

That is enough to keep this going in some form, just have to decide what that looks like.

Filed Under: Blogging

Your Monthly Installment

May 14, 2024 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

So it seems this joint gets updated monthly which is quite different from several times a day as it once was.

And we are still debating whether to keep going or to roll this up into one of the other blogs out there which also seems to be part of a common theme.

Next week marks the official start of this blogging journey, 20 years of random thoughts and crazy stories.

Think I ought to work on putting something special together for that.

Filed Under: Random Thoughts

A Walk Through The Past

April 6, 2024 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

A Little Digestive Distress- Chicken Vindaloo
Never Bet Against A Sicilian When Death Is On The Line
There Is A Difference Between A Father & A Man
Mean Girls Come From Mean Moms

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Midnight Barking

March 5, 2024 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

If you are truly lucky you’re awake when your dog starts barking at midnight. Awake so that you are not so far into sleep to wonder if it is a dream and if you should rouse yourself.

And when you do wander the house with him you can feel pretty good about what you find or don’t find lurking in the dark.

But there is still that sense from childhood when you remember the feeling that something might be out there just far enough away to hide itself from your furry friend but close enough to find a way inside.

So you thank him for his vigilance and tell him to keep watch while you try to sleep because morning will come too soon.

Filed Under: Random Thoughts

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