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"When you're in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, 'Damn, that was fun'." Groucho Marx

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Disconnecting From The Office

July 16, 2023 by Jack Steiner 3 Comments

The lack of consistent posting here doesn’t provide any insight into the other things going on in my life or why things have slowed down.

But that is not what this post is about, nor do I think most readers have that kind of interest in the little details.

This is more of a note to myself, a reminder that I haven’t done a good job of disconnecting from work during vacation.

Or maybe it is better to say the last three or four, because I was better about it in the past.

Anyhoo, the one thing this blog does a great job of establishing for me is how fast time goes and how quickly children grow up.

Which is why I have promised to leave my work phone and laptop at home when I go on vacation at the end of this week.

It is time to disconnect.

Time To Make More Memories

My children probably don’t recognize slides though I know they have seen them before, but shots like the one above make me smile.

Because they remind me of great trips from the past and invaluable experiences with friends and family.

The goal when I leave this week is to make some more and to put myself in a position where work cannot distract me because I will have no way to see it or acknowledge it.

Ideally there will be no great fires or challenges while I am out, but if there are, they will wait.

It is time to disconnect and recharge my batteries.

This computer will come with me and maybe I’ll update the blog again, but the primary focus will be on creating and enjoying experiences.

Life is too short to ignore the clock.

Filed Under: Children, Life

Is It Really 17 Years?

June 24, 2023 by Jack Steiner 2 Comments

I have been cleaning up broken parts and pieces of the blog but that is not the reason I haven’t updated the way I said I was going to.

And yeah, I know I keep talking about it and talk is cheap.

Those things are all true and there is no doubt that action is the only thing I will accept as having merit or should I say proof of my intentions.

Anyhoo, I came across Troubled Waters? What Troubles Does Water Have? and realized it is 17 years since my paternal grandfather died.

That is shocking and yet not at all because when I think about it there is no doubt that much time has passed.

Except I have to think about it because it never feels that long ago until I start to actively consider what is different between then and now.

It Is A Different World

It is a different world now in almost every important and measurable way. Though if I talked to grandpa I think he would tell me he went through the same things, even though the changes might be different.

He saw political upheaval, big changes in the country and the world. He buried parents, saw his kids grow up and watched jobs that were once important disappear and new ones evolve.

Are the changes more profound or just different.

I lean towards just different but I would have liked to have discussed it with him. Guess I’ll have to just consider the options and what I think he might have said,

My dad would have said it doesn’t matter because I do what I do regardless of what anyone says, 😉

Filed Under: Life, Random Thoughts

More Than Monthly Updates

February 8, 2023 by Jack Steiner 1 Comment

Been speaking with The Shmata Queen about many things and even gave her a nudge to restart her blog but I don’t think that is happening.

At one point in time I knew the password and login information so in theory I could restart it myself but I am not where said information is so that is unlikely.

And hell, I am having trouble doing more than monthly updates here so does it make sense to light a fire somewhere else?

Probably not but somethings about life don’t make any sense to me now so who is to say that taking unexpected action wouldn’t yield positive results.

Of course it could lead the other direction too and that wouldn’t make me happy to maybe I ought to play it safe in at least one area…maybe.


Who Walks Through Fire

Told the queen we always should pay attention to who walks through fire for us and to pay special attention to those people because there are only a few and some of them are extra special.

Maybe special enough to write about or to inspire writing and that is worth noticing.

The real and true muse of our lives, they are meaningful and significant if only we have the sense to listen.

Filed Under: Blogging, Life, Writing

What Is Meaningful

January 10, 2023 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

Been blogging for so long now the little boy whose toddler antics were highlights of early posts is a twenty-something-year-old man who went to jury duty.

It was his first time doing so and it led to some conversations we haven’t had in quite a while.

The gist of it was my reminding him to ask questions about what is meaningful and what is fluff.

There are fewer moments where the kids reach out to me to ask for my thoughts/advice/assistance on things so I very much appreciate those rare opportunities when they come along.

Don’t mistake that to mean I want them coming to me for everything. That is not what I want at all.

It would mean I failed and I am proud to say I didn’t. They are very capable of standing on their own and they mostly do.

But there are still things in life they haven’t experienced or have far less experience in doing than myself so moments creep up.

“Dad, can I ask you a question?”

The answer is always yes but the answers are not as simple as they once were and they have long since recognized that I don’t know everything.

That is ok, they should know I am human and just a man.

But sometimes it is nice to be needed like they did when they were younger. Sometimes it is nice to put those shoes back on and lend a hand.

I like it.

I like watching them grow and evolve. Sometimes hard to watch but mostly good, they are smart and they get it.

Life is some kind of rush now isn’t it.

Filed Under: Life

Another Year Comes And Goes

November 27, 2022 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

Another year comes and goes isn’t quite accurate as we haven’t reached the end of 2022 but in my experience the time between Thanksgiving and December 31 moves at light speed.

Thought about it because I heard someone play The Hustle and it reminded me of being a kid at  a New Years party and being told I had to go to bed.

I was around seven or so and remember being angry because I was certain I was old enough to be up past midnight for a party.

Heck, there had been times when I had absolutely been up then so I had no understanding of what crazy logic my parents were using.

But I wanted time to move faster so that I could show them that I could stay up late and not be tired the next day.

It’s funny how slowly time goes as a kid because you only want it to go faster and as an adult it flies by but you wouldn’t mind if it slowed down.

Had all of my kids for Thanksgiving and got an excited call from my middle sister who told me that her oldest was able to take time off from the new job to go to her table.

I told her to say hi for me and to appreciate that he had driven through three states to get to her and then laughed because that still sounds ridiculous to me.

Driving through three states that is, not that it can’t be done but if you can do it in a day those states are awfully small.


Hold On One More Day

Got some big stuff on tap this week and it’s chapping my hide that it is chapping my hide.

Really shouldn’t be any reason to be concerned because I will manage whatever comes my way, but something about it has me uneasy.

Probably irked because I know there are some big changes and I don’t know enough about them to start working out how to handle them.

You can equate this to why I dislike hurricanes much more than earthquakes.

I haven’t any problem accepting that Mother Nature can unload some pretty heavy stuff upon us but I hate the idea of watching and waiting for a hurricane to hit.

Reminds me a bit of when I was younger and I got into some fist fights. I hated the anticipation of whether it would hurt much when I got hit.

Always felt better after I had been bloodied because I knew what I was dealing with.

Earthquakes can be pretty damn scary sometimes but you don’t get to spend a week or part of a week walking on eggshells while you wonder if the beast is going to wallop you or give you a small kiss.

So I am focused now on holding on one more day so I can more accurately gauge and assess what needs to happen.

Anticipation is no fun.


Walt Was Right

I like what Walt had to say in the quote above, he was correct and I follow his advice.

Doesn’t hurt that it tends to fit my preferred way of living, now more than ever. As the years go by I get a bit crankier and more set in some of my ways.

Not all, I am not above changing if it makes sense, always open to better ways of doing things.

Made a point to talk to the kids about that at the Thanksgiving table. Told them what I am grateful for, told them a little bit about what scares me and what gives me hope.

Got more hope than fear, that is a good place to be.

Filed Under: Children, Life

Sometimes You Can Feel Opportunity…Knock

October 21, 2022 by Jack Steiner Leave a Comment

Sometimes you think your life is going to go a particular way and then something happens that makes it clear that what you expected to happen won’t.

Those changes aren’t always easily read so you can’t determine whether the new direction is something to be excited or concerned about.

But sometimes there is a moment where you can smell changes in the air and gain a sense that something is about to happen.

And sometimes you can feel opportunity begin to stretch and warm up because it is about to…knock.

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What Will Your Story Look Like?

I don’t know how to answer that question yet, but I suspect I will soon.

 

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